A Bit of Fun at the IWBAL Awards Night

Because I like to be a bit innovative with this blog, I decided recently as a tribute to awards season, to create my own first annual IWANNABEALADY Awards! First, I produced the awards. You’ll see how soon enough. Then I asked my Instagram followers to head over to my stories and vote on 3 categories: Best Drama * The Taking of Pluto * * Absinthe … Continue reading A Bit of Fun at the IWBAL Awards Night

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Instagram Fashion: February

Here it is, ladies! The time of the month you’ve actually been waiting for. These are some of my favorite Instagram fashions from the month of February. I’m currently working on incorporating some of the style elements from last month, and you’ll be seeing some of those outfits trickle in here on the blog and on my Instagram page. You’ll recall that one of my … Continue reading Instagram Fashion: February

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Do You Trust Yourself?

I have failed so many times. Public failures. Private failures. I’ve been called a failure; I’ve called myself a failure. I’ve given up so many times. I’ve been energized, and I’ve watched my energy dwindle. I’ve fallen in and out of love with others and with myself. Do I trust myself? Honestly, kinda. Kinda is not the best answer by far, but it’s damn better … Continue reading Do You Trust Yourself?

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The Beauty of Boudoir, and Why Every Woman Should Do It

The day before my boudoir photo shoot is the feeling beautiful pre-game show. I spend extra time exfoliating and applying natural oils. I drink copious amounts of water for days to ensure plump, hydrated skin. I pull out every piece of lingerie that I own. Silky, lacy, demure, racy; I try them all. I put on music, slip on some heels, dance in front of … Continue reading The Beauty of Boudoir, and Why Every Woman Should Do It